Veronica is my evil twin sister and Tarot reading queen. When she isn’t writing for my blog, she’s slinking around being sexy and mysterious and getting into mischief!
Have you ever heard someone claim that they’re “non-judgemental” or say “No judgement!” after you catch them looking aghast when you introduce your three husbands?
Well, they’re lying.
Everyone with a brain judges. We’re all judgy Judge Judys, regardless of how hard we try not to be.
Judgement is how we discern the crap from the non-crap. It’s how we decide who we want to spend time with and who totally sucks.
So if you’ve been beating yourself up lately and judging yourself for being so judgmental of everyone around you….STOP!
You’re not judgmental, your discerning.
Trying to stop being judgemental is like trying to stop farting.
It’s a dishonest way to live.
In the comments below, tell me what judgements you’ll no longer feel guilty about having….
Go Veronica!
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Thank you soooo much!! I can finally quit judging myself for being judgemental!! No matter how hard I try, it just keeps happening, and I’m usually harder on myself than I am others…
I know, its hard. I try not to be judgemental too, but its impossible! I have decided it’s enough to simply keep my judgements to myself – and that in itself is pretty challenging!
Hmmmmm………. really having to think about this. discerning….. able to discriminate against one thing or another…. hmmm….Seeing it’s the housewives tarot I will try and promise not to be to judgmental about the amount/number of kitchen gadgets (expensive) someone I know has. Shit….what next! A robot to operate them all!
Ha ha – I think I might be that person with all the kitchen gadgets!